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Chicago area, looking for friends,

Always a top, a Dom when I find a good sub. (I end up topping a lot more than Domming, and both are good, sometimes even great! :) ) Happy to chat and get into cyber roleplay. But don't bother if you want to talk about rape, incest (not interested in being your "daddy"), or age-play. Rarely do phone, so don't ask. If it's a possibility, I'll let you know. If you're a teen, thanks for the interest, but I'll pass. I don't post or share pictures. If that's a problem for you, I'm sorry, but it's the way it is. Be real. I am. And BTW, the "Cdn" in my screen name stands for "Canadian". == Results from bdsmtest.org (obviously for when I Dom; topping can be anything from mild to wild) == 100% Dominant 97% Degrader 92% Voyeur 88% Master/Mistress 87% Rigger 67% Primal (Hunter) 64% Brat tamer 59% Experimentalist 58% Exhibitionist 50% Owner 43% Sadist 34% Vanilla 11% Daddy/Mommy 10% Non-monogamist 0% Masochist 0% Switch 0% Submissive 0% Rope bunny 0% Slave 0% Boy/Girl 0% Degradee 0% Primal (Prey) 0% Pet 0% Brat 0% Ageplayer

Just poking around for decent conversation. Talk hockey to me.

In Chicago (boystown)... Dominant / aggressive TOP - (Yes I will go from mild to kinky with no notice) -- CJ likes to have fun, watch movies old and new, read, do daily workouts and travel in and out of the country. CJ has been to over 20 countries and 45 states. If you were to describe CJ... He's an honest and trustworthy man who is full of vigor but can act like an adolescent at times. He is very blunt and has this "in your face" honesty. That is the New Yorker in him (he grew up in New York - Long Island). If he doesn't like something he will tell you but also be prepared to take criticism but he also takes criticism well. CJ also loves humor... dirty, intelligent, fun, nasty humor (long time listener of Howard Stern). A good vomit or shit joke will always make him laugh. CJ will be sarcastic and can be down right mean with his humor and conversations but it is always in jest. If you are offended well he just doesn't give a shit, UNLESS... he knows he's wrong. He will ALWAYS apologize if he knows he is wrong. CJ has that maturity to him. CJ is very well educated and has a Masters degree, he tries to learn languages, and likes to be relevant with social cultures, politics, and other interests.

US Navy.. Gay..

dlyatobi(at)tutanota(dot)com write me and I will tell you about me more with number

Looking for friends or more, Retired marine

I am a top looking for a younger bottom for long term relationship . I like to hunt , fish ,and go camping and I love to cook

I'm open minded understanding caring loving passionate but NOT Judge mental or racist. I'm 5,ft 11 inches tall. DON'T judge a book by its covers but get to know me. I DO NOT claim perfection by passing the buck or hide behind my own faults and so on by RAKING up other peoples. I do NOT judge others a to z. How can people be expected to be 100% perfect and faultless when no one is? People who judge others regardless of why SHOULD keep in mind that it takes one to know one.. I am a loner but NOT by SELF choice. I'm a care giver for a disabled friend with many disabilities. My parents most of my family and some friends are dead. I am here looking for open minded understanding friends and a good easy going chat about most things. I am caring understanding loving affectionate and can be passionate. My dad was killed by a train when I was 3 year old. Other family members and close friends over the years died of other things even cancer. My dear mum died of a brain tumour and the list goes on but this is NOT self pity. It happened so I'm telling it. If my age is an issue with anyone then GET REAL because NO ONE stays young and looking like film star for ever.. Its NOT all about looks, A GOOD Personality MATTERS as PLUS GOOD attitude and things like that. IT COSTS NOTHING TO BE SIVAL AND SOCIABLE. if your only here for a relationship then please don't be put off chatting with me when you see my private pics as they don't need to mean any thing to you, No need to get wrong ideas or be offended by them. This Gaychatzone.com badly needs to have a name change to Gaynotchat-but-blockzone.com as MANY seam to be so fixed on blocking people and NOT chatting with them regardless of what ever. IS that what they call SOCIAL media chat sites?. Just like wars a virus like war is trying to divide us. IN other ways most of us are sadly helping it along. Just like wars a virus is trying to kill us all off. IS that not a good enough reason to stick together in any ways we can..?? Temporary I will add this point, IF THIS VIRUS FINISHES US ALL OFF THEN THERE WILL BE NO ONE LEFT TO BOTHER ABOUTLESS SERIOUS THINGS SUCH AS OTHER PEOPLES FAULTS BLEMISHES AND SO ON,. Think about it PLUS IT COSTS NOTHING TO BE SOCIABLE. It is nice to be nice.. That is all that should matter. IF anyone has ALREADY instantly got me summed up as a BAD person, then at least THINK of this. WOULD I be taking care of a disabled person with many issues and disabilities for years for his dead father who was a good friend of mine if I was so EVIL? I'm NOT doing it for self gain or any other self DEVIOUS motive or WRONG hidden agenda. WHAT GOES AROUND COMES ROUND. (KARMA). People SADLY prefer to hide behind their OWN faults and imperfections and so on and SADLY focus on OTHER peoples Taking the focus AWAY from them selves and their faults and so on. Sad people. Life is TOO short for NEGATIVE things like that and so on.. I WANT To add that IF anyone feels I am freaking them out then they have PRE JUDGED me. wrongly. I can NOT read minds so if they DON'T tell me what they like and don't like to chat about and so on then HOW AM I MEANT TO KNOW ? YET by the same token I can ask what you like chatting about and so on first before I say or ask any thing also.. I am NOT a mind reader. ( GOT THAT? It is NOT ). If ANYONE can not or even WILL NOT even try to accept a person Its NOT the persons fault or problem . One day On my way back to my friends place i saw a old women with a walker and she was blind in one eye and said She had no money until Monday so i gave her some. I was on my way back to my friends place,. I am not looking for praises and all that stuff. I already feel good when I do things like that and more for needy people like that part blind woman. https://www.facebook.com/behumanbekind/videos/1426745197369052/ You might have to copy and paste this to see it but its true. To put it a less direct way none of us know this. Read the caption to find out what. A man by him self l lives in a world of his own. But there is no one who can live in the world all alone/ . On the the up a man can walk over his friends. What goes up comes down and one day he may need them again. There will come a day when every one passes him by. What will he say when no one answers his cry??.. It may take some time but each man will find that he meets all kinds of people .He must believe in them as it it takes all kinds to make a world.. ( Kalema ) IF ANY ONE EXPECTS PERFECTION FAULTLESSNESS AND NO BLEMISHES AT ALL FROM ME THEN THEY ARE NOT BEING REALISTIC BECAUSE HOW CAN I BE PERFECT WHEN NO ONE IS PERFECT??..IF anyone EXPECTS me to be perfect faultless and much more then THEY ARE living in Cloud Coo Coo land in Si Fi world fairy story land fantasy island being TOTALLY unrealistic with UNREALISTIC expectations of me because like THEM I am ONLY human. I DON'T have to try to be WHAT or WHO ANYONE wants me to be. But I DO try to be as good a person as i can be a to z. .I DON'T use my imperfections to be imperfect OR as a valid reason to be.. We CAN NOT please EVERYONE as its a HOPLES task to try. in any way at al. Being non is not a reason or excuse to go on being not perfect and I DON'T do that either.. If any one tells you not be friends with some one just because they hate that person or have any reason for telling not to be friends with them then PROVE THAT YOU HAVE A MIND OF YOUR OWN AND ACCEPT PEOPLE AS YOU FIND THEM. The person who tells you not to be friends with some one no matter why is claiming self perfection and NO ONE IS FAULTLESS OR PERFECT... Show others and prove you have a mind of your own. To some women I may not be the best looking guy in the planet, To you guys I might not be ugly but all that matters to me is that its not all about looks. It is about what is in the heart.. I'm NOT a dreamer or some one who lives in dream land m,, make believe I'm not a guy who thinks he can be what or who he cant be. I dont try to be something or some one i am not. i cant live a lie. The list goes on. https://www.facebook.com/behumanbekind/videos/1426745197369052/ You might have to copy and paste this to see it but its true. To put it a less direct way none of us know this. Read the caption to find out what/.. The list goes on. Every one is fighting some battle you know nothing about so be kind always. The BIGGEST communication problem we have is that we DON'T listen to understand BUT we listen to reply. https://www.facebook.com/behumanbekind/videos/1426745197369052/ copy and paste or re type this link Our age is ONE thing we CAN NOT change. We CANT order a new one. It is NOT about self choice on it.. It WOULD be good if all or MOST of us could get along SOMEHOW as tomorrow is promised to NO ONE...Did you read my profile before friend requesting me? Being older is NOT a SELF choice for ANY ones BUT it can mean more experience in life and more that can be useful to younger adults. You DO NOT know the PERSONAL battle any one is fighting in their life's so be kind ALWAYS.. I DON'T claim self perfection OR to be faultless or above ANYONE in any way by point scoring finger pointing bad mouthing blame gaming or passing the buck in any way. I even DO NOT judge. Does anyone still want to befriend me? Then please do BUT .If not then just MOVE ON with your own non perfections & NON perfect life's and LEAVE mine alone. I wish this was TRUE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_bOcCbLcvSE Please copy and paste the link to see the video

pretty easy going here, like to play guitar for fun, overall good guy, just get to know me :) no drama, just plain conversation

Live in Houston, TX. Just here passing the time, seeing who is interesting to chat with. Hit me up if you like.

fabulous!

42 year old gay male from Texas looking to make friends to chat with. If you don't want to chat with me thats fine just say hey not interested don't be rude to me and just ignore me and if you start a conversation with me and just leave in the middle of the chat I will only give a second chance it happens again I will block you. Don't ask me for money especially if your in a different country or claim to be in the army,navy,air force etc because I will block you. Don't ask to Skype I don't have Skype anymore I have whatsapp but only talk to my real friends so within time I will make close friends on here to give out my whatsapp. Don't ask me what I do for a living because that will get you no where but blocked. If you don't have at least one face picture on your profile don't bother private messaging me not being rude but I want to see who I'm talking to simple as that. And one other thing I don't go to the gym or workout I'm not interested in being buff or muscled up I'm average and that is fine with me don't expect me to be an Adonis or anything like that take me as I am or leave me alone.

Hi, I'm Jamie (real name btw), I've made real good friends on here who I really respect. And I'm back after........... not sure, a year?......I've missed people but this is the present which brings the new light of day to the future. I hope to continue meeting people, chatting and whatever develops positively.

I am a crossdresser a submissive and a sissy I love to cook and clean and dress as a girl

bingos camping

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I have a stroke about 4 years ago. My brain my not ago there. But I like all like of thing. 5'7, 160, br/br, looking for friends and LTR. Like watching a little baseball. Like LOCAL stock-car and super-modified car racing, Amateur songwriter and now creating demos - always looking for a male vocalist - for PAY. NOT into gay extreme attitudes or behavior. Please be not fem. Looking more for friends than hook-ups. Like the simple and usual things. I eat, walk, see arts/craft/antiques fairs, like theater and concerts, enjoy friends, like outdoors in warm weather... See how much we have in common ! ?

I'm here for chat, nothing mundane but nothing romantic.

Canadian and proud of it. Not happy with the US at all right now.

? Am on here looking for someone i can probably spend the rest of my life with

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i keep 1 parrot, nancy the blue front amazon, .i love to read and learn about parrot behavior, and nutritional needs, i love preparing their diet they get sprouted seed, chopped and shredded veggies, cooked pasta, tree nuts and fruits, and some grains, i set a day a side every 2 weeks two make up their food for 2 weeks. i have 2 dogs patty and beauregard patty is a chow chow akita mix very protective of me she has cancer. patty and beauregard are my babie i have 1 cat oliver he is 11 years old he is maincoon and siamese mix he is a very finicky kitty will only eat one kind of cat food and eats it 4 to 5 times a day....he is my boy then we have the posse of my menagerie my 2 sugar gliders they are molly and jenka tater and baxter, molly i also love to read about their nutritional requirements and husbandry, i feed fresh veggies and fruit and a protein source and supplement with vitamins and calcium i feed the diet in the form of a nectar, they also get insects, and eucalyptus for enrichment, i like to sew thempouches and other items for their cages, and i make them toys. i do enjoy sewing and other crafts, building things and such, as a past time i like to read and learn about aquariums and their Maintenace. i like to do things on the computer like chatting and researching about different pets, also like to read and learn about wicca, i like to learn about plants and their properties, healing stones, and some novels. i also enjoy plants and gardening. im am a down to earth shy reserved guy very quiet, if im uncomfortable i pretty much shut down, im and drug free, been that way for 34 years back in the 80s i spent some of my late teens smoking crack, lost every thing, place to live, car job every thing.....i realized thats not the road i wanted to take in life and have strived to be better, make everyday count, once i cleaned myself up i got a job, an apartment, dog that was what i was working for, then a few months later i mat a guy who i would spend 24 years of my life with, we had a happy life together we had our ups and downs, but most importnatly we had each other he passed on in 2014 at the age of 43, inn 2007 my partner decided we wanted different things in life so we took a break i met a man john i spent 3 years with him he died in 2010 of colon cancer at the age of 43 me and richard both took care of him in his final days. i have received alot of love in my lifetime and a lot of meanness and unkind treatment what did i do with it ? well the love and kindness i let grow within me, i try to treat everyone i meet with kindness and respect.........the meanness hatefulness and unkindness i buried. i never in my lifetime want to make anyone feel the way i have been treated at times i do want to put in my profile i am mentally il, i suffer from depression and schizophrenia, it is managed with medications, i still have my bad days but not as often, people who know me will tell you im one of the kindest people i will help anyone, there is alot of stigmas with schizophrenia, its very rare for a person to become violent, off my meds yes im different but not violent im more scared, and i have like one person who is like my security blanket, richard was that person for me for 24 years, now i have no one. my work was i was a nurses assistant i took care of alzheimers patients for several years, cancer patients for a few years, and then the other part was i took care of mentally ill people, i was good at what i did and loved it. today? im practically scared to leave my house, i very seldom leave my home, this is where my animals are and i dont want the to feel alone so i choose not to leave, i socialize in chat rooms and social media the only time i leave it maybe a quick run to the store or doctor appointments. i like helping people, i was once told i was to kind for a world that wasnt kind to me and let me down, but i keep smiling i know theres something better, i no longer talk about my life or pets in the chat room due to complaints, i no longer talk about sex or even how big your dick is thats no longer an interest of mine i havent had sex in12 years and have been fine